Well, I edited my last post after finding out that I give people too much benefit of doubt. My brother called the other day to find out what happened and I was explaining how I didn't see any red flags this time, so that's why the whole thing scares me. Then, I started to tell him about a few little things that made me uneasy, but I didn't really see them as flags. I'm starting to realize, though, maybe that feeling in my gut is the red flag. The moment I start to feel insecure - is that the point I need to say I'm done? About a month into dating this guy, someone used the word "boyfriend/girlfriend" about us and we hadn't used those terms yet. I kind of laughed and said, "So... are you my boyfriend now?" What I envisioned to be a cutesy moment where we start using the title turned into a conversation that left me feeling uneasy about our relationship. He spouted off things about how we needed to take it slow and I was so determined ...
A Texan momma to two little girls, one more kiddo on the way, and many fosters to come!